How to Control Children's Internet Use

Place the computer in an open area where the screen is easily viewed by others. This allows you to check his computer activities without being a nuisance to him.

Set a specific time for Internet use. Set this time when an adult is home to supervise.

Communicate the dangers of the Internet and set rules. Explain what sites are appropriate and what sites are dangerous. Tell her never to give out her email address unless it is someone she has met in person like close friends or family. Tell her not to post any pictures online without your approval.

Set the adult content blocks on your Internet browser. This keeps anyone from accessing web pages with inappropriate content. Many service providers allow you to set blocks for specific users. Set a screen name for your child with the appropriate blocks. Norton has a program that alerts you when your child has visited websites that include specific phrases such as "Build a bomb."

Know your child's screen name and password. Password protect the computer and your screen name so she does not use the Internet when she is not allowed. This also stops her from using your screen name to visit websites.

Check your child's email on a regular basis. This in not an invasion of privacy, it is a safety measure. He may see this as intrusive but it needs to be done. Check for spam, inappropriate e-mail and visits to dangerous websites.

Review your child's Internet and Instant Messenger history to see where she is going and who she is talking with online. Check the "History" icon in the browser and "Archives" or "History" in Instant Messenger.